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20 Reasons Why Military Wife Life May Not Be For You!

June 22, 2018

My name is Shenie Bento and I am a Navy Senior Chief Wifey. I have 20 years experience being a Navy girlfriend, fiance, wifey, and baby mama. I have learned alot about people. I have made incredible friendships, I have made mistakes and lost amazing friendships. I have ridin on the hot mess express into drama town and come out the other side a new person. With that being said here a few things that can make your life easier if you are considering to join the military wife life. 

 

 

1. If you're not comfortable with moving every 1 to 3 years; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

 

2. If you are not okay with sudden change, living out of a suitcase, or living outside of the united states; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

3. If you are not comfortable being a single parent for a majority of your marriage by months at a time; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

 

4. If you are not willing to have your family time or family vacations interrupted by phone calls, texts, or emails at all hours of the day or night, or having to cancel family vacation as a whole; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

 

5. If you are not an independent person, if you can not handle doctors appointments on your own, keep up with your own job; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

6.If you do not have the ability make new friends or make your own choices; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

7. If you or your spouse can NOT keep your junk in your trunk while they are on deployment; then neither one of you are ready for military wife life!!! #aintnobodygottimeforthat

 

 

 

 

8. If you can not handle finances or have the patience to deal with Tricare, or you depend on name brand medicine; military wife life is not for you.

 

 

9. If you are expecting your spouse to have banker's hours; military wife life is not for you.

 

 

 

10. If you think you can call the CO or Master Chief and ask them for your spouses work schedule or question why they are working until 2am; then military wife life is not for you. ***how embarrassing for your spouse***

 

 

 

11. If you think you can use your spouses rank to benefit you personally in any way, then military wife life is not for you. *** Rank is not a popularity contest***

 

 

 

12. If you plan on using your children as an excuse for your spouse to come home early everyday or to avoid deployments; military wife life is not for you.*** E7s and above have families too, you're not the first ones to think of this ploy**** 

 

 

 

13. If you are not willing to accommodate BBQs, birthday parties, command family functions, socialize with other military wives dealing with deployment; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

 

14. If you think you are above the law and that military rules do not apply to you; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

 

15. If you are not a fan of reality TV that is actually real life DRAMA, DRAMA, DRAMA, and more Drama than an episode of "The Real Housewives Series"; then military wife life is not for you!

 

 

 

16. If you are a DRAMA QUEEN who makes the rest of us want to take you out for a GNO and return home without you; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

 

17. If you are caught up in the fantasy that you will be rich and travel the world by marrying a military person; military wife life is not for you. *we really don't make that much, and you might travel the world it's not a guarantee, but it's your spouse who will be traveling the world the most*

 

 

 

 

18. If you or your spouse are not willing to give 110%  of yourselves to your marriage, your growing family, or careers, and learn how to fight fair and how to compromise; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

19. If you have no intention on being faithful, loving, supporting, or understanding; then military wife life is not for you. 

 

 

 

20. If you are not willing to listen to your spouse who had a rough day and they talk in nothing but acronyms and rates and you have no idea what on earth they talking about or what they mean; then military wife life is not for you.

 

 

 

The moral here is be a good person and find a good person. If you can treat each other as your best friend, your lover, and your protector; then you will have nothing to fear. Enjoy your happiness and best wishes to you in the future wherever the military takes you.

 

#militarywifelife #navywifelife #livingthedream 

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